So, you look at porn. Don’t worry, I kinda already thought you did.
I get it. There are naked females on every corner.
It’s not like you have to go looking for it, it comes looking for you. 
And society says it’s normal. It’s natural. It’s just what ALL guys do.

Well I don’t think it should be. 
I know some girls act like they’re ok with it, but I have no idea why they would be.
It hurts. The thought of you checking out some other chick's boobs.
But bringing it up is awkward. It’s the elephant in the room. 
It’s not like I want to talk about it, but it's time to break the silence.

From your girlfriend.
You know I don’t look like that right? So please don't expect me to.
I can’t live up to the double D's & size six skinny jeans.
I am a real girl, not a Victoria's Secret super model.
Plus, I don’t want to do half of that stuff.
It's sounds yuck. I wish you wouldn’t ask me to.

From you wife.
You say it’s not about me? But I just can’t see how that's true.
If you were happy with me, why would you need something extra to get you through?
Am I not enough? Maybe I’m just really bad in the bedroom?
Every time I find something on your laptop, my heart breaks in two.
I can’t help but feel betrayed, like in a weird way you secretly cheated on me. 

From your mum
That girl is someone's daughter.
Treat her like a princess not a porn star.
She has a name, a story, a place in God's heart.
She could be your sister. 
She's not just an object for some guys little Mr.

From God.
I don’t think you’re a bad guy.
I understand your struggle.
Don’t feel guilty. 
That's not my voice condemning you.
You are still my boy.
Even when you do things that aren't good for you.
So instead of hiding it in the dark and pretending it will go away...
Take it to the light, that's where I can help you.
Be honest about it. Talk to someone you look up to.
You're not alone. I am here for you.
And I will ALWAYS ALWAYS love you.

 

P.S I know this kind of stuff applies to girls too! I'm not naive, I understand that this is an across the board issue. I just thought it would be nice to write something specifically for guys once in a while too! x



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