Before I was married, I had this picture in my head of what I thought marriage would be. It was a dreamy blend of "The Notebook" and "A Walk to Remember". Of course I'd be a good wife; patient, honouring and graceful. My husband would be cuter than Channing Tatum, charming, thoughtful & an incredible listener. (Just like when we were dating!) Then I got hitched and entered the world of "real" marriage.