Relationships can be messy, and love can be complicated. Here are "10 Don'ts of Christian Dating". They are raw and honest, compiled by the many failings of my own life and the wisdom of a collective group of voices. Remember, relationships are Gods idea! Marriage, love, family (sex) are all really good things and God wants you (and I) to experience them in all their fullness, but sometimes that means avoiding certain pitfalls and dangers. So here goes.
Since when did lying around, holding hands and making out become an "achievement" (its pretty normal when you're into someone)? I'm not saying you can't have fun together and kiss all day, but gee if that's the climax of your relationship, your relationship is about as deep as a bonsai tree. Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes effort.
So often when we call it quits in a relationship, we don't actually shut the door entirely (just in case it’s "meant to be"). Truth is, you’ll never actually move past him until you fully let go of him. So slam that door girl. If it's right and he wants to get back in, he’ll knock it down. But for now let him go, reset and restore. A wound can’t heal if it’s constantly opened